Unstoppable

A Note From LoriKay

I want to share a little something with you before you step into my chapter called “Make Anything Possible.”

When the opportunity came to contribute to Untoppable: The Rise of Female Global Leaders, I  felt a lot of fear. The kind of fear that shows up when God invites you to step into something beyond your comfort zone. 

Writing has never come easily for me, and the thought of sharing my story in a published book felt daunting. But even in the fear,I felt God  nudging me to take inspired action. 

I was honestly stunned to learn that I was the final author accepted into this collaborative book,. I had so many doubts and it was incredibly challenging, but I followed that prompting.  I am thankful to have  experienced God opening a door and then strengthening me to walk through it.  

I’m grateful for earthly angels who helped me organize my thoughts and bring the  message of CHOOSING forward to you.

Thank you for being here. Your presence is a blessing.


 Before you read my chapter, which tells the story of my path and how I came to learn about the Unstoppable Formula, I’d like to give you a glimpse of who I am now and the work I’m devoted to today.  

Meet LoriKay

LoriKay is a heart-centered Empowerment Specialist dedicated to helping people calm their nervous system, improve their health and shift into a place of choice-not habit or reaction- so they can live with more intentional joy, ease, and alignment.

She supports clients in recognizing their divine potential and provides practical tools that encourage lasting transformation.

Her approach is an alchemy of mind, body, and spirit work that releases what is blocking the path of peace, love, joy, and personal empowerment.

She helps clients turn on a “success switch” in the brain and body, create new neural pathways, and release negative subconscious programs while clearing generational patterns that no longer serve.

With more than 15 years of experience in energy medicine, LoriKay brings both depth and compassion to her work.

Originally an elementary education teacher, she later became a Cellular Alignment Teacher and Energy Healing/Four Pathways Professional.

Her advanced training includes Complete Alignment Technique, Investigating Health, Investigating Brain, Foot Zoning, Hypnosis, Neuro-Linguistic Programming & Rapid Eye Therapy.

She is also a QiGong teacher, Reiki Master, Christ-Centered Coach, Breath Coach, and Abundance Masters Coach, and now considered a two-time International Best-Selling Author.

 Currently, LoriKay is integrating Avazzia Life Pinnacle frequency technology into her practice and loves adding it into Deluxe Foot Zoning sessions. These frequencies help reduce joint, muscle, and nerve pain; dissolve scar tissue; realign fascia; support alpha and theta brainwave states; and provide chakra and meridian-focused frequency balancing.

Through her business, Enlightened Life Path, LoriKay helps clients build resilience, stop self-sabotage, and align their body, mind, and spirit with what they truly desire.

She also leads a Success Membership, where she teaches her STAR Method as part of the Make Anything Possible Formula—a framework designed to empower individuals to move forward with confidence and clarity.

LoriKay lives in Gilbert, Arizona, with her husband of over 35 years and treasures her role as a mother of four and grandmother of two.

Make anything Possible!

I wish I had known thirty years ago what I know now . . .  life would have been filled with more joy and ease as I transformed into using my personal power.

Overview

At my lowest times my body wasn’t functioning well. I felt worthless and incapable. I felt trapped, with no control, no ability to change things – trapped in my family, in my marriage, by my own self sabotage and by rigid beliefs. I felt misunderstood and so alone. My life felt heavy, as though I were wading through thick mud, dragging along with me so much baggage. Every step was a challenge.

I often felt an adversarial influence that did not want me to step into my full power. Through learning new techniques, I discovered that my subconscious programs from my childhood were weighing me down, and I seem to have inherited trauma patterns from my ancestors too!

Using clear intention and tapping into a fire within, I blazed a trail to release generational baggage and mindfully create new neural pathways and actions that support my body and spirit.  This has helped me make anything possible.

I am deeply thankful for my tenacious spirit. I used to play a song called Tubthumping, “I get knocked down, but I get up again; you’re never going to keep me down!”  I would sing that at the top of my lungs, stepping into determination.

My story is one of triumph, as I learned to change how my mind views circumstances. I regularly deeply relax, giving evidence to my brain to rewire and strengthen new calming pathways for my nervous system and to help healing happen. I have embraced my gifts and personal power and have broken through major subconscious beliefs.

I have created a successful marriage, better health, as well as my Enlightened Life Path business that helps people lighten the burdens they are carrying, inspiring them to live to their highest potential. I help clear the path so transformational tools are effective and align the body and mind with the soul’s desires, bringing more joy and peace to their lives.

Frozen In Fear

My mother almost gave birth to me in the front seat of the car. She froze and didn’t know what to do. I have come to realize that her fear was imprinted upon me, and freezing became my go‑to response.

There have been times when my body was frozen after awakening from nightmares. I was conscious but not able to move. I’m thankful that I have been able to rewrite my birth experience through my hypnotherapy training, which has given me the ability to act more easily.

Trapped

As a baby with hip dysplasia, my foot was in a cast and my legs were placed in a brace that kept them spread open. This rigid structure created subconscious programs that taught me I had no power to change things and created an underlying theme of being trapped by an outside authority.

My father was an authoritarian. As a child I felt like I was walking on eggshells with his explosive temperament and learned not to say much. When he came into a room I would quickly jump up, ready to be told what to do. I felt I couldn’t relax.

Growing up this way caused my senses to become hyper-aware, especially since I came to this earth with a sensitive body and spirit. Demeaning voice inflections would shatter me, and I would internalize harsh words which were directed to others. My father was very judgmental towards my mother, particularly concerning her weight. The texture of his voice registered in my body as disgust. Soon I had a recording of his voice replaying in my mind.

Later in life my sensitivity expressed as anxiety and contributed to the intensity of my allergies. (I have since learned to unravel the mixture of elements that create physical challenges, both for me and for others, which often helps the body function more optimally.)

Quest For Safety

To me, the unknown was not safe. I recall trying to make my husband angry while we were dating so I could see what he was like. I was determined to find the most kind, calm man on the planet that was also humble and who maintained similar standards to mine.

Fortunately, I was successful in that quest, although I soon found myself overlaying my father’s persona on my husband. I would tense up when it was time for him to come home and would relax when he left. I believed my thoughts were not important. My brain would freeze and shut down whenever I was asked questions. I often felt I needed to defend myself or simply felt stupid because I didn’t have words to explain.

Rewiring my nervous system

Luckily, I learned techniques for regaining my voice and changing my view of my husband. I call one of them “Redefining.” I made two lists: first, a list of positive traits that I wanted to have my brain more easily recognize and be grateful for; and second, a list of things I did not want to focus on, including how my body felt around him.

Next, I did an aligning process that trained a part of my brain called the RAS to notice what I wanted. That process helped to rewire how my nervous system interacted with my husband, so that I experienced him differently and no longer felt trapped in my marriage, which now is more joyful and fulfilling.

Losing the use of my hands

After my second son was born, I found it excruciatingly painful to grasp anything, as blisters and rashes would appear on my palms. As I served my children, I sent fiery anger at my hands which hurt so badly. Simply moving my hands or touching anything would also painfully trigger the most horrific itching response.

I later learned that we lived five miles downwind from an area that burned hazardous waste and that my symptoms were caused partly by heavy metals building up in me and food allergies; also by a compromised liver and by a genetic condition that caused my body not to detoxify properly. I appreciated the cotton gloves given me by my dermatologist, but his instruction not to touch anything and not be stressed was a joke!

However, I have learned much about de-stressing. I also learned that there are molecules of emotions with neuropeptides that can reconfigure themselves with a bit of intentional physical movement, which process emotions and reduce pain.

Ingnoring inspiration brings pain

Just like my mother, I had no “off button” with sweets. I felt fat and wanted to lose weight. I ignored personal inspiration that I should not take the pills that were offered after a body-wrap.

Unfortunately, the diet pills ended up hurting my digestion. I had not yet realized that my body is extremely sensitive and can easily experience a myriad of negative effects from a number of causes.

After eating, fatigue washed over me, my brain became foggy, my body ached all over, rashes appeared and I had severe headaches, all while parenting two young boys from the bathroom throne!

Rage easily came. I pushed it deep inside. I didn’t want to be like my father! I was determined not to have fiery energy that hurt others. However, one day I exploded and yelled at my three‑year‑old who dropped a gallon of milk that burst over the kitchen floor. On another occasion something triggered me, and I grabbed a wooden spoon which left a bruise on his leg. I was devastated to realize that I had acted like my father. I determined then that I would become the chain breaker.

I learned to observe my behavior and say to myself, “This is what LoriKay feels like when she is angry.” Then I would carefully notice things: tense neck, hot face, frantic darting eyes, wanting to run away. I needed to learn that it was safe for me to face what I feel. 

Much later I learned to create power from my anger when I saw injustices, and in a calm and focused way was able to bless the lives of many who were homeless. During this period I was prompted to invite two people, at different times, to come and live with me for a while in order to help them turn their lives around.

Wanting to end it all

As a young mother I really hoped that God would remove my trials. Now I understand the growth and gifts I developed as he led me at a pace that I was willing to take.

As the years went by there were times when I was able to flow towards faith and hope and could feel my burdens lifted. However, other times my mindset would spiral down drastically.

Adversarial influences seemed to magnify any negative thought a hundred-fold. There was one very dark day when it seemed that the pain and frustration of caring for a one- and a three‑year‑old was more than I could do.

I wanted everything to end and immediately had an idea of how to do it in a painless way. The heaviness and darkness surrounded me, and I was on a slippery slope of suicidal thoughts. Miraculously a church member called, and the ringing telephone snapped me out of that dangerous thought pattern.

Choosing how to live

Soon I recognized that this life is about learning to choose where to focus. I tried focusing on giving my burdens to Christ, on having gratitude, and serving others. Sometimes I was just too tired to do anything and chose to look up and focus on my ceiling, feeling grateful that it was clean!

I believe that part of the reason we come to this earth is to learn what it’s like to experience

opposites. I want to use my agency to choose the better part, but sometimes we aren’t as

free as we think, as we carry so much baggage.

Some of our baggage is from subconscious programs. I carried a belief from my ancestors’ experiences of being powerless to change things. I chose to experience freedom and power to change things in the silliest ways to prove to my brain that I can: I smiled and laughed while turning on a light switch. Doing actions with emotion helps to rewire the brain, and I enjoy celebrating that I can easily change things. 

I also celebrate being free to move. Having worked through my body image issues, I now

have videos of myself leading classes. I hope you can join me sometime to learn simple movements that help the subtle energy flow while doing some brain rewiring techniques and guided visualization.

I believe that my spirit agreed to have my body so I could learn specific lessons and experience the growth that my soul desired, and could learn to clear the ancestral powerless pattern. When we break free of a habit or belief that was initiated by an ancestor, it helps them opt into being more free, and sometimes they then can be more helpful to us on earth!

I also had a strong belief that life was hard. I had heard this expressed at church. My father was born during the depression, and during most of my life I felt poor. I believed money should be saved. I felt so much guilt paying for medical help when I became sick.

Sometimes our baggage doesn’t allow us to accept help. A friend suggested a doctor three hours away, but I couldn’t imagine getting past the obstacles of the drive, babysitters and the money. She also suggested I stop eating wheat, milk, corn, soy and sugar. I didn’t want to make those kinds of changes! Ironically, after suffering for a couple more years, I learned to eat that way and to value my ability to function over what my taste buds wanted.

Even with my best efforts, I had chronic fatigue, often was in pain, and continued to struggle with the skin on my hands. I realized that my identity (and my self‑worth) was directly related to how much I served others. Eventually I learned the lesson God was trying to teach me: “I have value because I exist, not because I do.”

Unfinished Coversations

I’ve certainly been on a journey. I now am stronger, more resilient, and have greater access to my personal power. I remember trying different kinds of yoga, and one that incorporated mudras and mantras especially resonated with me. It involves different finger positions that allow the energy to flow through helpful circuits while chanting sounds—which calm the vagus nerve and open the throat chakra, making it easier to say what is needed. I enjoy leading these kinds of classes.

Yoga was changing me for the better, but it was an adjustment for my family. My father wasn’t used to the new LoriKay who would not bend over backwards in response to his every demand. I had always enjoyed serving, but I now was a very busy mother of four. I recall one time when he was livid that I could not help him immediately.

After he stormed out, I asked God to help bring my father’s higher self for me to talk to. As I imagined that happening, I spoke to him, repeating over and over: “I hear you. You hear me. I understand you. You understand me.” My imaginary conversation with my father resulted in each of us feeling loved. I transformed anger into healing as I radiated compassion and forgiveness. Within an hour he called me and apologized—for the first time ever!

Are there people in your life with whom you have unfinished conversations? I recall making a

huge list of people from my past where I didn’t get to say what I needed to. Doing this simple process will bring momentum to your progress!

Imagine rowing a boat with 25 anchors tossed over the side of the boat. Each unfinished conversation slows you down as you try to move forward!

Firing God

My relationship with God has at times been a rocky one. It’s funny how I have viewed Christ as a helpful support and God the Father as a demanding God who doesn’t show love in helpful ways. I recognize that I had overlaid my own father’s traits onto God, perceiving God as demanding and punishing.

After my father passed away, it seemed as though a Pandora’s box opened, and I experienced severe anxiety. One day I was driving a church member to a doctor’s appointment. He smelled like smoke, and I felt trapped in a poisoned container.

My right leg was cramping severely. I used my tools to communicate with my body — gently rubbing the area, asking what it needed, saying in my mind, “I’m sorry, please forgive me, I love you.” I imagined breathing Christ’s light and love into it, and the pain as a color and a shape leaving my body. When he left the car, I started sobbing and shaking, realizing how traumatizing it was to feel like I was trapped serving him. That experience was enough, finally, to get me to be willing to pay for professional help.

My therapist felt I had not yet processed small traumas, let alone big ones. I kept disassociating as I did EMIR (a process that helps release traumatic memories). There was a week when every night I felt I was being choked as the muscles in my body started reliving memories. During this time I recalled my parents sharing that I had once had my stomach pumped. That helped me to put context to the experience.

In this difficult phase of life I would wake up, call out to God in my mind and ask for light to

open my throat. I was angry when help didn’t come quickly. It was so frightening!  I used Emotional Freedom Technique to process my thoughts, and to help my meridian channels open and allow chi to flow through my body more easily, 10 minutes of this felt like an eternity.

Honestly, during this time, I became incredibly ticked at Heavenly Father. I wanted a God who felt supportive. One time I prayed, “Hey you, you suck; the end!” I felt abandoned and believed He didn’t care. I no longer wanted that kind of God. 

Redefining God

Eventually I took every belief I had about God and religion, examined it, redefined things,

did the Cellular Alignment Technique, and now carry loving, supportive beliefs.

I believe there are divine beings who created this universe as an advanced school for us to learn to choose the higher path of love and are here to partner with us to transform our experiences into valuable wisdom. I am held by a greater power than myself all the time. Christ is there to lighten my burdens, and I am surrounded by an angelic team who love and protect me.

I’m so happy that I have been able to sense the spirit of my father and have even trained my nervous system to experience him in more positive ways. He was supportive, provided for his family, instilled a great work ethic in me, wanted me to enjoy life, and loved me in the best way he could, even as he was living in tremendous physical pain. I have great compassion and gratitude for him!

Rewiring

Since 2010, I have helped others with anxiety, depression and pain and have helped their bodies to function more optimally. Now I also help people to become unstoppable in reaching their goals and learning to understand their personal strengths and purpose. The Cellular Alignment Technique I teach has helped hundreds to move through self‑sabotage.

Sometimes we tend to act as though we’re addicted to part of our programming; that is, what is known and therefore safe. The opposite of this is metaphorically running away from what may be helpful. Since it is not known, it therefore is not safe. The technique helps make new neural pathways that give evidence of safety. This works with all kinds of goals: financial, physical and relationship.

I’ve combined my knowledge into a powerful formula which helps a person to move forward, having more freedom and joy as they put themselves in a place of CHOICE. The technique takes care of the “STOPPERS” — those things that tend to divide the efforts you put in towards achieving a goal.

I have some free training to share with you. It’s much easier to show than to write out! For now, however, I will share the formula along with a brief description:

SPIRIT CONNECTION:   

First connect to

(1) your higher self- your spirit

(2) your Higher Power

(3) your angelic team

Next imagine loving light coming down from heaven and filling you. Connecting to a Higher Power or the Universe and taking actions to remove blocks are key to being unstoppable.  (I easily work with all belief systems.)

INTENT:  What do you want?

To be unstoppable, often we need to LEARN a skill.

Obviously, we also need to APPLY what we learn.

FOCUS:  There are two kinds of  FOCUS. A softer focus is more meditative and includes imagining things being what you want.  The other is a determined focus that is directed to specific tasks. The technique makes it possible to be better at applying the right kind of focus when needed.

STOPPERS:  Our baggage that can be magnified by adversarial influence, which does not want us to grow to our full potential:

Subconscious programs running and Conscious mind not present.

Trauma: life experiences from earlier ages that weren’t processed.

Other people’s mental and emotional energy and their actions.

Parents and ancestors: experiences of our ancestors that have been passed down.

Physical body: Issues with body’s systems, nerve connection, blood flow.

Energy body issues in chakras/meridians/aura.

Rehashing events and thoughts.

Soul wound: experiences that happened before this life.

Aligning Technique

We use our conscious mind to hold a specific intent while doing different breathing patterns.

and tapping sequences. I call it “Aligning.” This brings blood flow to the prefrontal cortex.

(away from the primitive brain), while giving input to the reticular activating system (the filter in the brain that decides what is important to bring to our awareness). This part of the brain starts finding solutions. The breath pattern also makes it easier to be motivated to move forward towards goals and is energizing. In time it will also begin to strengthen new neural pathways.

This process helps you step into a place to act and not be acted upon, as it lessens the Stoppers’ ability to hinder efforts, making progress easier and not relying on sheer willpower to achieve what is wanted.

It has been fun changing what appears impossible into what is actually achievable with this technique. For example, I hosted a World Empowering Transformation Summit with Zoom. It was a huge task, especially considering that I had zero technology skills, and my brain would shut down in front of a computer! I successfully moved through the barriers and ultimately received feedback that the teachings had positively helped women around the world.

With this alignment technique I have helped clients bring in money, make progress with a new business, improve relationships, let past lovers go, be empowered to be around others, accept differences in family members’ beliefs and gender roles, stop smoking and overcome porn addictions.

Making progress can be easier!

It’s kind of human nature to forget how far we have progressed. Taking note of where we started is helpful, then learning to focus on the gains we’ve made and celebrating that progress, rather than focusing on the gap, noticing only how far the ideal situation appears to be from where we are.  I’m truly in awe at my progress.

Star Method

As I was sick with  COVID the STAR method came into my mind clearly. It has proven very transformative.  I’m offering a success membership where you can join me monthly to experience the Alignment technique and STAR method.

S= Stimulate the physical body in a way that helps the energy body flow.

T=Tap into your higher power and higher self

A=Aligning Technique

R=Rewire and Rewrite the story

Blessings

I’m thankful for all the things I have learned and for the inspiration I received concerning what to do. One time when I was frustrated about the speed of my hands’ recovery, I felt I should write as if my hands could talk to me. During this practice I softened my eye focus, allowed my eyelids to droop down, and then imagined that my hands had a voice. I then wrote, “All you do is send anger to me. Don’t you know I’m trying to serve you the best I can?” I now emphasize the importance of self-compassion as well as gratitude.

I believe that with God’s help I have moved forward, despite the package my body came in and

despite the environment in which I was placed. I received a priesthood blessing in which I was told that I was to work hard on a special talent with which I had been gifted and that my hands would be dexterous in helping others.

 I have been blessed to hold onto my Christian faith while expanding and learning about:

-Using Human Design and Soul Astrology to help myself and others become aware of when actions are out of alignment, understand strengths, and life purpose.

– How to send healing energy to anyone anywhere.

– Deep focus and directing molecules to change so the body functions more optimally

– Energy work to let go of generational patterns.

– Removing adversarial influences with spiritual help.

-Clearing negative or heavy energy from food and in homes

      – Using the symbolism of colorful balls flowing away to help release negative energy

– Removing subconscious baggage with hypnotherapy

-The power of breath to invite life force energy through the chakras and meridian channels.

      – Humming or chanting “Om” for relaxation.

– Gentle body movements to release stress and reduce pain.

– Brain rewiring techniques.

Summary

I have learned so many wonderful things that give me peace regardless of what is happening in the outside world. My new mantra is, “I relax and trust that I’m in the flow of doing what needs to be done to evolve the world and have the energy to sustain my actions.”

I’m excited to share ways to break through subconscious programs, resolve some of the

stuck nonbeneficial generational patterns and optimize subtle energy flow so that growth can more easily happen.

There are many ways to help clear interference. I have videos showing how gentle movement mingled with visualization can help to release what is stuck in the physical or energetic body. I also have group hypnotherapy sessions that help actions be more effective.  I hope you will join me.

Many like to work with the masses. I still enjoy the one-on-one approach. I enjoy shining light on the divine potential of others, shedding light on their purpose. I love helping others achieve what they desire while experiencing more peace, joy, and compassion for themselves.

I have better health, growth with my business, and more fulfilling relationships as I’ve taken steps to make anything possible. I’d love to help you do the same! Connect with me to receive free training where I show the basic part of the alignment technique to help you become a bit more unstoppable!

Continue Your Journey

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I hope our paths cross again soon! 

If you felt connected to anything I shared in this chapter, I’d love to support you even further.

Here are a few resources available to help you continue growing, healing, and creating more ease in your life:

Join My Email Community

When you join my email list, you’ll automatically receive my free alignment training, where I teach the basic part of the technique that helps clear interference and strengthen success pathways.
 https://enlightenedlifepath.com/free-technique-training/

Free Connection Time

Small group gathers for support to more easily handle what is happening in life. I help you connect with your body, mind and spirit to experience a more joyful day. 

Explore My YouTube Videos

I have videos that guide you through visualization, gentle movement, and somatic techniques to release what’s stuck in the body and reconnect with peace.

Membership for Ongoing Support ($35/month)

If you’d like more personalized transformation, my membership program includes:

  • One-on-one sessions
  • Pre-recorded subconscious and generational clearing sessions
  • Tools for rewiring the brain and body
  • Movement that helps the fascia of the physical body release trapped subtle energies. physical fascia
  • Practices that cultivate success, calm, and clarity